Harare Correspondent
In a recent report by H-Metro, a woman from Hwedza, Zimbabwe, named Tambudzai Godwa, has revealed that she has not engaged in sexual relations with her husband, Itai Godwa, for four years. The reason for this prolonged abstinence is her discomfort with her husband’s size, which she claims leads to issues during intimacy, specifically that she ends up “messing the bed and blankets”.
Tambudzai’s Perspective
Tambudzai expressed that initially, she was willing to tolerate the situation out of love, but over time, it has become increasingly problematic for her. She mentioned that her husband prefers a more vigorous style of intimacy, which she finds difficult to handle. Despite her reluctance, she feels trapped in the situation, stating, “I cannot go to my parents’ house but I am just staying for the sake of my children”.
Itai’s Response
On the other hand, Itai Godwa has expressed his frustration, stating that he cannot change his physical attributes and desires intimacy with his wife. He emphasized his love for her and expressed a wish for her to engage with him at least occasionally.
Conclusion
This situation highlights the complexities of marital relationships, particularly when it comes to physical compatibility and communication. It raises important questions about how couples navigate differences in sexual preferences and the impact of such issues on their relationship dynamics.
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