South African Correspondent
Vivian Rapakgadi Ntsoane, a trailblazing former player for Basetsana Basetsana and Mamelodi Sundowns Ladies FC, has spoken out about the challenges she faced as a woman in sport. “Women proposed to me, thinking I was a lesbian,” Ntsoane revealed in an interview with Daily Sun.
Ntsoane’s athletic physique and strong personality often led to assumptions and misinterpretations, making it difficult for her to form relationships. “I didn’t have a boyfriend growing up. The boys felt challenged by my character. It was tough for a man to approach me,” she explained.
Despite her success on the field, Ntsoane’s femininity was often questioned. “Men and boys would question if I dated girls or boys, thinking I was a lesbian. Off the field, my makeup made me look more feminine,” she shared.
Ntsoane’s story highlights the barriers women in sport often face, from prejudice to societal pressure. However, her determination and perseverance serve as a powerful message for aspiring athletes and those seeking to challenge norms. “I’m proud of who I am, and I hope my story inspires others to be themselves,” she said.
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